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God looked around his garden
And He found an empty place,
He then looked down upon this earth,
And saw your tired face.
He put His arms around you,
And lifted you to rest,
God's garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering,
He knew you were in pain,
So he closed your weary eyelids,
And whispered "Peace Be Thine".
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you didn't go alone,
For parts of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one
The chain will link again.

Author Unknown

Loving you always,
Pietrina, Nancy, Richard, Geraldine,
Michael II, Joseph and Grace



Our Hearts

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some stay for awhile --
And leave footprints on our hearts,
And we are never the same.

Bradley Tyler

With everlasting love and memories.
Nancy



TO THOSE I LOVE AND TO THOSE WHO LOVE ME

WHEN I AM GONE, RELEASE ME, LET ME GO, I HAVE
SO MANY THINGS TO SEE AND DO. YOU MUSTN'T TIE
YOURSELF TO ME WITH TEARS, BE HAPPY THAT WE
HAD SO MANY YEARS. I GAVE YOU MY LOVE, YOU
CAN ONLY GUESS HOW MUCH YOU GAVE ME IN
HAPPINESS. I THANK YOU FOR THE LOVE YOU HAVE
SHOWN, BUT NOW IT'S TIME I TRAVELED ON ALONE.

SO GRIEVE A WHILE FOR ME, IF YOU MUST, THEN LET
YOUR GRIEF BE COMFORTED BY TRUST. IT'S ONLY FOR
A WHILE THAT WE MUST PART, SO BLESS THE
MEMORIES WITHIN YOUR HEART, I WON'T BE FAR
AWAY FOR LIFE GOES ON, SO IF YOU NEED ME CALL,
AND I WILL COME. THOUGH YOU CAN'T SEE OR
TOUCH ME, I'LL BE NEAR AND IF YOU LISTEN WITH
YOUR HEART, YOU'LL HEAR ALL OF MY LOVE
AROUND YOU SOFT AND CLEAR. AND THEN, WHEN YOU
MUST COME THIS WAY ALONE, I'LL GREET YOU WITH
A SMILE AND SAY;
"WELCOME HOME."

AUTHOR UNKNOWN


ERNEST W. RUSSO, ESQUIRE
A TRIBUTE BETWEEN A FATHER AND DAUGHTER
A Tribute written by Nancy Russo and modified from Bob Carlisle's Song "Butterfly Kisses"

There's two things he knew for sure:
She was sent here from heaven and she was Daddy's little girl.
Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair.
"Walk, beside the pony, Daddy, it's my first ride."
"I know the cake looks funny, Daddy, but I tried."
Oh, with all that I've done, I must have done something right to deserve her hugs and Butterfly Kisses.

Sweet sixteen, she's looking like her momma a little more every day.
One part woman, the other part girl.
To perfume and makeup, from ribbons and curls, trying her wings out in a great big world.
But I will always remember her Butterfly Kisses.

Daddy, you know how much I love you.
Daddy if you don't mind, I'm only going to kiss you on the cheek this time.
With everything I've done, I must have done something right to deserve her love and Butterfly Kisses.

All the precious time, like the wind, the years go by.
She'll be admitted to the bar today.
She'll make a promise, and I'll share her with the world.
Standing in the courthouse foyer, she asks "what am I thinking" and I say "I'm not sure, I just feel like I'm losing my baby girl." Then she leaned over and whispered in my ear and gave me her love and...Butterfly Kisses... with her momma there.
"Walk me into the courtroom Daddy." "Don't cry."

With all that I've done, I must have done something right
to deserve her love and Butterfly Kisses...

I couldn't ask God for more, man, this is what love is,
I know I've gotta let her go now, and share her with the world.
but I'll always remember... her love... and Butterfly Kisses...


To My Beloved Father,

As you began your journey into the heavenly world, I want you to know that I caught the" BUTTERFLY KISS" you sent across the room to me. Your precious and unforgettable kiss landed right in my heart where it will be forever tucked away until I have the opportunity to once again give my "BUTTERFLY KISSES" to you.

You are sadly missed forever and ever,

Your beloved daughter,
Nan
nan@fast.net


You Are Here

Though you are not here now
You are here.
Though my eyes do not behold you
My thoughts retain your vision.
Though my arms do not embrace you
My Spirit won't let you go.
And though my heart cries out to me,
Wishing your presence,
Here, Now
I have the consolation of knowing that
Mentally, I can behold you,
And
Spiritually, I can embrace you.
M.D. Rubin

Dad, you are in my heart always.
Love, Geri



A Letter to Russo Family Members
June 29, l998

Dear Family Member:
It is with a heavy heart that I inform you that our beloved relative, Babe, passed away on Tuesday, June 23rd. Babe meant so much to all of us in that he was not only a relative, but a dear friend and an advisor. He always found time to listen to our troubles and concerns with a deep amount of understanding and compassion. Within the framework of our family, he was regarded as "Chairman of the Board."

Babe was a man who was family "all the way." He was an individual with a heart full of love-not only for his immediate family, but also for all his other relatives. Personally, I've lost a cousin, a brother and my best friend. He will be in my thoughts and heart for the remainder of my life.

I do hope that you will all keep Babe in your prayers.

Sincerely,
Anthony E. Russo


Babe - The Person

He was liked and respected by all who knew him, especially those who had the opportunity to grow up with him in the Pursel Hill section of Phillipsburg. He never had a bad word about anybody. A man of tremendous compassion and understanding. He was able to relate to everyone from every walk of life. He was a super sensitive individual and if stories of sadness reached him, his eyes always filled with tears. In a quiet way, he did so much to help individuals who were in need of his help and understanding. He epitomized so much the philosophy that we have heard so very often and that is - "I shall only pass this way but once, therefore, if there is any good or kindness that I can do, let me do it now for I shall never have the opportunity to pass this way again."

In the framework of the family, he was regarded as "Chairman of the Board".

Rosalie Russo
Sister-in-Law


Uncle Babe

As kids we went to his pool for a swim,
He warmly welcomed all friends and kin.

His hospitality made us all feel at home,
In his eyes, the love for his family shone.

Family reunions he held at his house on the 4th of July,
Though he appeared gruff, he was a softie and would easily cry.

Boardwalks, beaches and those Wildwood days,
He even supported our Tom Jones craze.

He loved good food, but hated flying by jet,
More of a family man, I have never met.

Nancy, Richard and Geraldine were the loves of his life,
on Charles Road, he lived simply and happily with his wonderful wife.

"Ernie the Attorney" was a moral, professional man,
He emphasized scholastics and integrity to Richard, Geri and Nan.

Uncle Babe exemplified sensitivity, honor and all the best human traits,
For his grandchildren, he would do anything, for them he rates.

Michael and Joseph were the apples of his eye,
It was so difficult for us all to say goodbye.

Uncle Babe, you will live in our hearts forever,
Our memories of you, we will always treasure!!

Love, your niece,
Vera



EULOGY TO A TEACHER

How will he remember her?
To him, she was always Miss Imlay.

What would he say to her,
To the ones he served,
When her teaching days were through,
And she walked through the door.

Miss Imlay had a favorite.
She smiled when he was down.
She made him feel that he was loved.
While she had jewels in her crown.

And yet one priceless accolade,
Out-sparkles all the rest.
A single phrase sums up those days:
"His teacher gave him her best."

Through the years he became,
Her advisor, confidant, friend and attorney.
It all started one bright sunny day,
When, with surprise, she walked through the door.

"Ernest, I'm Mrs. Mosier,
Your kindergarten teacher."

"No, he replied,
"You are not my kindergarten teacher,
I had Miss Imlay."

"But Ernest, I am Miss Imlay."

Her picture of kindergarten years,
Still sits on the desk,
As his portrait overlooks that
room that was so much him in later years,
where he, too, became a teacher,
of law and life.

Miss Imlay,
Thank you for the memories,
the love,
the remembrances,
the laughs,
the chats,
the stories,
the Christmas greetings,
the friendship,
being a part of my father's life,
being a part of our life.
Through him, you will not be forgotten,
and, to us,
you will always be,
Miss Imlay.

Fondly,
Nancy Russo


I am very sorry for your loss. Mr. Russo was a wonderful man who made a great difference in my life. His honesty was refreshing, his sincerity ever present and his kindness genuine. He will be missed as a great friend, a mentor and an advisor. It is difficult to put into words how much he meant to me, however, I can clearly say that I am a better person for having known him and there will be an empty place in my heart and my life that he occupied.

Sincerely,
Frank Geraghty


June 23, l998

Dear Beatrice,

Babe is in our prayers.

May you seek solace in a lifetime of treasured unforgettable memories of living together. A life concerned with the good of the family and dedicated to the guidance of each and everyone of you. May you all find peace and reflection in your work.

Love,
Nancy and Anthony Letterese


Bea, Nancy, Richard and Geraldine,

I was sorry to hear of Babe's passing. He could always make me smile when he talked about how much he loved P'burg, and when he would call me "Nancy with the smiling face." My dad was so upset when the heard the news about his "cousin." May your wonderful memories help you through this difficult time.

Love & prayers are with you,
Nancy Cotugna


Dear Mrs. Russo, Geraldine, Nancy, and Richard,

I am sure the last few weeks have been difficult for the family. I want you to know that I join you in your sadness. The family has lost a marvelous husband, father, and grand-father and, of course, I have lost a wonderful friend. His life speaks for itself and we can truly rejoice that we were able to share this morsel of time we are afforded on earth with such a fine human being. Ernie was kindly, generous and infinitely loving of his family. I had the highest respect and admiration for this very special man.

As in the past, I will always be there for the Russo family. Please do not hesitate to call upon me at any time or for any reason.

With great affection,
Arthur M. Laszlo, MD.


June 30, l998

Dear Beatrice & family,

I only have pleasant memories of Babe, my mother and father. My father referred to Babe as King Faurck. Fun-loving, generous, and a person full of love and life. Babe was a unique person. I will always remember him.

With love and fond memories of a terrific person "Babe."
Joseph Puglia


In Loving Memory
of
ERNEST W. "BABE" RUSSO

Seventy-three years ago a baby boy was born to Elvira and Arthur Russo at 732 Columbus Avenue, Phillipsburg. He was given the name Ernest-named after his uncle, my father. Ernest was the fourth child born in the respective Russo families of brothers Arthur and Ernest. To distinguish him from the three Russo children born before him, family members, friends and neighbors referred to him as "Baby Russo." As time passed and two more Russos were born into the families, this affectionate name was shortened to "Babe." To those of us in the family and to his close friends and neighbors, this name remained with him for his entire life.

Babe grew up on Columbus Avenue, attended and graduated from Brensinger Grade School. I remember him in those days as one of the popular kids at school and on Pursel Hill. He was always a leader among kids in his age group. Many of the friendships made during those formidable years continued with him for a lifetime. It was just a few weeks ago that he told me a story about two of his grade school teachers with whom he still remained in touch after all of these years.

Shortly after graduation from grammar school, Babe's family (his father, mother, and brothers John and Bill) moved from Columbus Avenue to New York City. This was quite a cultural shock for young Babe, as you can imagine. For a thirteen year old from Phillipsburg to assimilate with kids his age in New York City in l938 was no easy task. I personally experienced this difficult assimilation process two years earlier, so I couldn't help admire the ease with which he handled it. His youthful personality and character which he developed in Phillipsburg, served him well, winning him a place in the social order of the young in the city neighborhood-something significant in the New York City scheme of things.

Soon after his family's arrival, Babe enrolled at DeWitt Clinton High School in the Bronx, one of the premier schools in New York at the time. He did very will matriculating at Clinton High, as he did at Brensinger. He was always a very good student.

As well as he did in school and as well as he did assimilating into the New York lifestyle, Babe always had a longing to return to Phillipsburg-the town of his roots. He never really became a true New Yorker.

Upon graduation from DeWitt Clinton High School and at the urging of his father, he enrolled at Lafayette College thereby leaving his family in New York and returning to Phillipsburg. It was back to Columbus Avenue where he lived with grandmom and grandpop and with cousin Anthony.

Anthony, still attending Phillipsburg High School at the time, was influenced by Babe and eventually followed him to Lafayette College.

Babe didn't start out to be a lawyer. Some of you may be surprised to learn that after graduation from Lafayette, he enrolled at the University of Pennsylvania School of Dentistry. However, after a short spell at that school, he came to realize that the dental profession wasn't really his calling.

It was at this point in time when he decided, after counseling with his father, that his future was in the field of law. He was soon admitted to Rutgers University School of law, along with Anthony, who, having graduated Lafayette, was following in Babe's footsteps. Babe and Anthony lived together during those years at Rutgers at the local YMCA, just three blocks from the school.

Three years later, Babe became the first of the Russos to graduate from law school. It was back to Phillipsburg immediately upon graduation, and the establishment of a law practice that spanned forty-five years. My uncle, Arthur, still alive at the time, was extremely proud of his son's accomplishments.

Babe's personality and character served him well in his practice. His early clients were many of the friends and neighbors with whom he grew up and lived. His understanding of the problems of others, his compassion for their problems, his sincerity, and his high ethical standards served him well.

As time passed, now happily married to Beatrice and the proud father of Nancy, Richard and Geraldine, he became the patriarch of the tightly knit Russo families. Those of my generation and the next migrated to him with our problems for his counseling and words of wisdom.

I would be remiss if I failed to mention Babe's devotion to his father, the principal influence upon his life, who was seriously ill for some twenty years before he died. He looked after his father during those trying times with the same devotion and dedication as his three children, looked after him during his time of crisis.

Babe was a proud father and grandfather. Nancy and Richard followed him into the field of law and eventually became his partners in the law firm of Russo, Russo & Russo, where Geraldine serves as manager. How much prouder can a father be!

And yet, in spite of all of these accomplishments in his family, as far as Babe was concerned, the best was yet to come-the birth of his two grandsons-Michael and Joseph- the "apples" of his eyes. A prouder grandfather you never met.

You did well Babe.

God speed!

Your cousin,
Arthur "Sonny" Russo
July 28, l998



July, l999

Dear Mrs. Russo,

Although you don't know me or my husband, Charles, we both knew your husband, Ernie, as we were clients of his for over twenty-five years. It was back then that my future father-in-law recommended him to us to handle the purchase of our first home. Ever since then he proved many times to be more reliable, efficient, skillful and kind than we could ever have expected. His down to earth approach always made us feel comfortable; something to be admired in this day and age.

Now that it has been a year since he passed away and the formalities of his funeral are long over please know that we still feel
sad in losing someone we were very fond of and whose advice had influenced our lives so greatly.

My prayers are with you and your wonderful family (whom we also know quite well) and most importantly for Ernie.

We will always remember him.

Very sincerely,
Mr. and Mrs. Charles LaValva, Jr.




September 29, 2001

Dear Dad, Uncle Bill, Uncle Ray and Aunt Elvira and Aug,

Please watch over our beloved cousin, Wayne Russo, your nephew, who joined you on September 11, 200l at the young age of 37. He is in all of our family's thoughts at this very difficult time in our lives.

Love Always and Forever,
Nancy


Thursday, March 25, 2004

Pops,
Hi Snotbox, it's Joe, you know I will never froget you even though it's been 5 or 6 years since I've seen you. You were something special to me like my favorite toy or game. Tomorrow is my birthday. I wish you could be there. If you were here maybe we could go to Rome, Italy. You pick the place. I love you the most of anything of all. I will sit on your bench in Wildwood.

Love, Joseph

Joseph Light
joel9948@hotmail.com